Inter-Cultural Relationship Tips-How healthy is Your Relationship?

How healthy is Your Relationship when there are constant Fights, Quarrels and Misunderstandings?

The big question is asking to know how healthy your relationship is at present when there are constant fights, quarrels and misunderstandings between both of you that profess to be in love with one another.  These things eventually degenerate into conflicts that are known to do damage to the love you share and the peace you enjoy as lovers, dates, partners and spouses?

What happens to the way you function or operate, can you perform at peak potentials? Can you give your best?

It is a funny world indeed when and where lovers find something (which is nothing really when it is evaluated) to quarrel about or disagree over out of the need to simply just do it. As it is often stated, there is ‘unity in diversity’.

This kind only leads to more laughs, happy cheer and intimate bonding between the both of you as lovebirds.

...However, for the majority it is a common trend to fight, quarrel and conflict together in their relationships.

One thing most people who are tired and are willing to change a few things around in their relationship will readily submit and agree to is in the fact that conflicts sap useful strength, kills initiatives and stagnates the relationship.

Simply stated, no one derives joy or satisfaction from the knowledge and experience that he/she fought with his/her date, lover, partner or spouse. Otherwise, such an individual desperately needs a medical checkup (psychiatrist help perhaps).

As long as fights, quarrels and misunderstandings are allowed to linger and/or fester in your relationship, there is no meaningful progress that can be recorded.

A worst case scenario is sweeping an unresolved fight or conflict under the carpet and pretending all is well after all.

Both of you have simply helped in creating rifts and cracks in the walls of your ‘supposed’ loving relationship; in actual fact, you are sitting on ‘a time bomb’.

Things could get quite messy when this bomb explodes thereby destroying all you have labored to build or gather over time. The only justification you have to continue on this pathway is where both of you do not take into consideration, value or regard all the sacrifices made to build and nurture your loving relationship.

The extent to which you have invested to make your relationship work, get your love to blossom and remain united as one, does it not matter? Would you rather forfeit your life’s goals and allow your ambitions to go not realized, accomplished or actualized?

Allowing constant quarrels, fights and misunderstanding leeway in your relationship will only serve to undermine your joint expectations together. 

This trend must be stopped and this ugly monster must be subjected to an untimely fate and that should be -sudden Death.

Resources known to help lovers, couples, dates and partners at this crossroad are self acceptance, effective communication, amicable conflict resolution and best of all, unconditional love.

What are you prepared to do starting from now? Friend, go and make something beautiful out of your relationship and with that special someone who means the whole world and even more to you... today.

Have a good success while you are at it. If there is anything more, ...make it worth your while.