Inter-Cultural Relationship Tips- Searching for Love and Acceptance in an Intercultural Relationship

Inter-Cultural Relationship Tips- Searching for Love and Acceptance in an Intercultural Relationship

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Pause a while at this point to ask or ponder on the title of this article or blog post today- Searching for Love and Acceptance in an Intercultural Relationship.


The first thing that comes to mind and that arrests the heart is in the fact that LOVE and ACCEPTANCE are two (2) basic ingredients to nurturing and fostering a friendship between two opposite sexes to start with.


As lovers, you progress from the point of having heard about, seen, met or encountered your supposed spouse to making plans and taking steps to build a strong and virile relationship together.


You cannot achieve this feat without LOVE and ACCEPTANCE flowing between the two of you. This is the bedrock upon which your relationship and association rests.


After all, it is evident that you are not the only damsel in distress waiting for a knight in shinning armor to rescue and claim as his own prized possession and jewel.


In the same light, you are neither the most eligible and handsome and suitable bachelor with strong biceps waiting to show off your prowess to the admiration  of all the ladies around the block.


In spite of your weaknesses, faults, limitations, biases, put offs and let downs, mood swings, etc either of you still liked one another enough to agree to seeing one another regularly, constantly and frequently as lovers.


This is not all, you agreed to love and cherish one another, to remain faithful and true no matter the circumstance and to always seek after each other's best in all situations.


DO NOT WORRY- you never made it as an oath if you are not yet joined together in holy matrimony. And where you are formally and officially and legally joined together as husband and wife already, nothing less than this suffices.


It is therefore an unacceptable fact that is subject to question to discover that your partner, lover, boyfriend or girlfriend or worse still- your Spouse is out searching for and seeking Love and Acceptance in your Marriage or Relationship.


Friend, you just have to agreeably come to terms with and in addition get to realize that 'whatever is worth doing at all is worth doing WELL'. You cannot afford not to give your relationship, love affair or Marriage the best shot it deserves or requires.


At least, not by today's standards where breakups, separations, divorces and single parenting is fast becoming the order of the day. This trend cannot be allowed to continue unchecked.


How do you intend to challenge this threat and risk to all happy ever after relationships today? It is most certain that without love and acceptance freely and lavishly shared and enjoyed, you have simply condemned your relationship to an equal fate- collapse and extinction.


As a concerned lover or spouse, you need to rise up to the challenge and get love and acceptance restored back in your relationship, affair and/or marriage without fail.


Where you are already tired and at your wits end in that relationship and are desperately looking for a way out, can you be bold and courageous and manly/womanly enough to break the news to your date, lover, partner, mate or... (never to your spouse please- it is till death us do part ways and all).


Do you still feel there is some love left to be salvaged in your relationship, maybe it is not a bad idea to consider approaching a guidance and counselling expert who majors in relationships turned sour for a start.


It does well at times to speak out as a hurting lover or spouse. It helps.


Do not keep mute and expect your lover, boyfriend or girlfriend or spouse for that matter to suddenly turn leprechaun or gypsy or Houdini  and be able to predict as if by magic the way things stand at present within your relationship and between both of you.


You need to realize that times are hard and challenging and it is not impossible to suffer a disconnect with your environment. States of ineptitude can be brought about by pressures, hassles, economic and financial hard times, disappointments, grief or loss, etc.


During moments such as these, your relationship may equally be affected. Rather than make matters worse, you should be understanding, flexible, accommodating, tolerant and best of all to be prayerful.


Approach your lover or spouse and in a manner which you know he/she would be more receptive to whatever you have to say or suggest. A problem shared with an appropriate individual is a great relief to any burden that weighs heavily on your heart and that troubles your mind.


Do not allow anything you are experiencing, feeling or even imagining no matter how remote to becloud the need to stay connected with one another in your relationship. You need to be in sync with one another to fully enjoy what being in an intercultural relationship is all about.


Where all else fails, maybe it is not bad to suggest that you should begin to readjust your thinking to starting a new life without your present boyfriend or girlfriend, date or lover. Married couples are an exemption to this advice or suggestion please.


The bond that binds you together is too strong for anything to rip you apart. As such, both of you must confront this monster that is set on destroying all you have ever labored to build together over the years.


Love conquers all. But where that same love is in short supply or rather that it is no longer in existence because it is no longer visible, felt, shared, experienced and/or enjoyed, what are you to do?


Look within, search around, go down memory lane, retrace your steps and maybe somewhere somehow light will shine to reveal where things began to fall out of place. No matter how insignificant this might prove to be, start small and learn to win back love and acceptance without being forceful, aggressive or timid about this.

BEFORE WE PART WAYS FOR NOW...

There are no two ways about this, a loving relationship between two individuals who love one another must be characterized by love and acceptance every step of the way.


The world has seen enough of fall outs, breakups, separations and divorces and lovers/spouses are advised to do the needful to resolve their differences in such a way and manner that will bring about the restoration of love, acceptance, effective communication, cooperation and all the ingredients that make relationships succeed today.


Cross culture relationships demand a greater attention from both lovebirds to securely guide it and to safely nurture it to the point where all that is evident is love, peace, harmony, progress, success and a fulfillment of every expectation in the hearts of both lovers.


Do not pass this off with the wave of the hand and equally treat it as 'persona non grata' -a matter that is of no concern to you. Learn to cultivate love and allow its sweet fragrance to spread all around. Help your lover, boyfriend, girlfriend, partner or spouse to overcome this challenge over acceptance today.


The future is too lengthy and lonesome to venture into without your trusted friend by your side.