Sunday, August 19, 2012

Inter-cultural Relationship Tips- Never Take Each Other For Granted

Inter-cultural Relationship Tips- Never Take Each Other For Granted

Just in case you are tempted to presume or wrongly assume now that you are married together (maybe for some few years) you can attempt to act independently of your spouse, you will be wrong to do so in a sense.

One fast way to damage the trust reposed in you by your spouse (whether it is your husband or it is your wife, does not matter).

All your decisions, thoughts and actions must be weighed in the light of the following considerations-
Am i doing right by taking this step?

Should my partner/spouse get to know of it, will she (he) be pleased and/or impressed?

Will my decision or involvement in this very thing help our bond and commitment together to grow strong or will it set our relationship ad the progress made so far a step or two backwards?

Thee are many areas where you can be caught on a wrong footing but being mindful of such traps and making every effort not to fall victim often helps most times.

Some areas to be on your guard include:
1. Opposite sex.
2. Money.
3. Use of your time.
4. Friends you keep.
5. Habits, etc.

Often times, it is best to simply intimate your partner of any developments or things which you consider is better shared between both of you. This is in contrast to allowing him (her) to find out through a third party and the situation gets messy.

Are you seeking to build a viral, dynamic, happy, peaceful, satisfying, rewarding and fulfilling relationship or marriage with your spouse, then you must learn to share, communicate and connect in many ways more than the ordinary.

Respect is reciprocal and putting your husband or wife's feelings about some issues before you act is wisdom indeed. In the long run, it will amaze you how responsibly mature both of you are in your loving relationship. Things can only get better.

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